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Sunday, May 29, 2011
Home!!!
While in Botswana, several girls from the church wanted to braid my hair to make me look "African," so I've included a picture of the result of hours and hours of having to hold still. They braided in extentions too, which is why it might look a little darker, they really didn't have any other color than black and green or purple!
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Profile
P.S. To get to my profile just click on my name at the right hand side of the blog where I tell a little bit about why I'm in Africa.
Fun and Games
I love the way they sing the hymns as if they're really thinking about what the words mean. It causes me to stop singing the songs from memory and start singing them from my heart.
Can I say it again? I love Botswana and the people here - I really wish I could stay longer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh well. That just means I'll have to come back soon:)
Friday, May 20, 2011
Lessons
~When you’re going to make a cup of coffee in Africa make sure and check for ants in the coffee tin, coffee maker, the spoon you use for the sugar, the sugar bowl, the creamer, and MOST importantly – check in the coffee mug!!! Ants are not very good swimmers, however they do tend to float to the top of your coffee as I learned the hard way;) I really believe that the whole continent Africa is just one giant anthill!
~ If you happen to hear gunshots outside the window, wait until you’re off the phone with your mom to go and check it out – it saves her a few white hairs and a small heart attack!
~ Look before you step – snakes, lizards, spiders, and especially if there are eight dogs on the property (personally, this is the worst next to a snake).
~ Don’t leave your make up bag in sight of your twelve year old cousin when you fall asleep if you don’t want tic-tac-toe or a mustache drawn on your face.
Seriously, now…
~Learn to be comfortable being uncomfortable. This one takes a lot of time to learn, but getting out of my comfort zone was one of the best parts of the trip.
~Sometimes the best source of encouragement is to just listen and pray.
~The culture shock is not in what you can see, but in the things you can’t see. Not in the surroundings or the actions of a people, but in the why behind the actions and way of life.
~ Letters, phone calls, and emails became so much more precious to you when you are far away.
~ Hey, life does continue to go on back home – babies are born, birthdays and anniversaries pass, weddings are celebrated, and deaths are mourned. I had to learn that I couldn’t be in two places at once, and to rejoice in where God has lead me, and to “rejoice with those who do rejoice and weep with those who weep” from this side of the ocean.
~ Our God is an awesome creator, and Africa is one of His greatest masterpieces. From the smallest anthill to the most magnificent mountain, or from the Lion to the lizard, He designed them all.
~ LIONS AND ELEPHANTS DO NOT ROAM THE STREETS HERE – THEY ARE ONLY IN THE GAME PARKS, LOL!!!
There are so many more things that I could have included, but as I said, they are too numerous for this post. Our God is a great God!
Friday, May 13, 2011
Fun with Friends
Botswana Blessings
Just eleven more days in Africa...it's hard to believe that this adventure is almost over, but the only thing that means is that when this one is over a new one can begin! Where should I go next? Peru? Japan? Greenland?
Well, I haven't said much about Botswana yet, so I guess I should while I'm here. Botswana has a much flatter and open landscape than where I was in South Africa. The people are all so very friendly and gracious to me, and it's been sp great getting to know them. Today I met a girl named Blessing, and I think that pretty well sums up what this trip has been - an awesome blessing! I will say the mosquitos are worse over here, but not unbearable.
During the week I helped Mrs. Clark get the things ready for a special Mother's Day lesson in her Sunday School class, which includes about thirty kids ages five to fourteen. In the Sunday morning service held in a preschool building, we sang some hymns and then I sang "In Christ Alone," a song none of them had ever heard before. That night at the Clark's house, we had a Bible study with a core group of Christians, and they begged me to sing the song again. So on Tuesday, some of the girls my age from the church came over and I taught them to sing the song, and we're going to sing it as a group this Sunday. After the Bible study, I served a special Italian style bread that my cousins taught me to make in SA and everyone absolutely loved it!
Tomorrow is Saturday, so I'm planning on just helping out around the house with whatever, and then I'm going to teach Mrs. Clark how to bake rusks. If you don't know what a rusk is - it's a type of crunchy treat that the Africans love to dip in tea or coffee( or melted chocolate is great too!). We're going to make a big batch for after Sunday evening Bible study.
The Clarks are really praying that God would send them someone to work with them here on the field. They desperately want someone who is good with leading music/ singing, and someone who could also work with the youth in this area. This mission would be an amazing experience, and the people are so open and needy. I really love it here, and will be sad when the time comes to say goodbye!
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Botswana Border Crossing
border crossing into Botswana would go well! Those prayers were
definitely needed and felt! My Uncle drove a Zambian friend and me up
to the border patrol office, and we took our passports up to the right
window along with my extension papers, where we were told that I
couldn’t leave the country because my papers didn’t have a seal on
them from the Polokwane home affairs office, even though it had the
official stamp. They told me if I wanted to cross I had to pay them
R1,000( about $300). This whole time I was praying inside thinking,
“Lord, I only have R20 with me that I was saving as a souvenir from
SA, and we don’t have the airtime on the phone to call my parents to
have them transfer money into my account, if they would even take a
debit card here…. But we can’t just turn around and go back to
Polokwane…”
So, we showed the woman at the desk the receipt for the money I’d
paid in the Polokwane office, and even that didn’t change her mind
(she said we needed to pay it at HER desk). She said the only other
thing we could do was to wait for her superior to arrive, so we went
back to the truck to wait – and pray! Less than fifteen minutes later,
the superior arrived and patiently listened to us explain that we did
exactly what the home affairs officer told us to do and had already
paid the extension money. He then stamped our passports and without a
word let us though. Praise God!
I am having a great time in Botswana, and am looking forward to
participating in their church’s music area, as well as their
children’s class. Mrs. Clark and I are going to be getting some
special things ready for Mother’s Day including a craft for the
children to make and give to their mom.
It was so tough to say goodbye to my family in SA – we’d become
close during the three and a half months I was staying with them, and
I’m going to miss them SO MUCH!!! Their family was such a huge
blessing to me, and the things that I learned and the experiences I
had there, I won’t soon forget.
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Monday, April 4, 2011
Sorrow and Joy
Monday, March 21, 2011
Happy Spring or Happy Fall!
Note on Testimony...
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Salvation Story
Hey Everyone, I just sent this email to my family and I want to share it with you all as well and hope that it is a blessing to you!
Last night I made a big decision, a decision that has taken me a long time to make, but I am so thankful that it's finally made! Let me give you all a little background first, before I tell you about last night.
For the last few years, and maybe more than that, as you well know, I have been wrestling with doubts about my salvation. Did I really say the right things, did I know enough, was I sorry for my sins, etc. It was very easy for me to brush them aside and get busy with work, classes, church activities, texting, and everything else. I would stay up late and get up early so that I would be too tired to have to lie awake and think about eternity. That's probably one of the reasons that I picked up extra shifts at Grand Haven - I didn't have to worry about anything convicting me there, and also there wasn't any time to "be still and know."
You might say "But you had the evidence of a Christian life, Lydia. How can you explain that?" Well, first of all, man looketh on the outward appearance, and only God could see how hard and wayward my heart was. During so many of Pastor Kobernat's messages I would feel the guilt of my sin weighing heavily on me, but was able to ignore it by running around after the service to talk to this person or that person, special music practice, nursing home service, or sometimes helping on the bus route.
When I felt the need to be truly saved coming, I would always try to pull out a memory that I do not have
of me praying a prayer as a five year old not wanting to die in my sleep and go to a burning Hell. It always
worked before, but the other day, I really listened to my heart, which was saying "Even if I didn't really get
saved, God knows that I was sincere, and I'm so good, He wouldn't possibly send me to Hell if I thought I
was saved." I was totally shocked when I realized that I was actually trusting my own goodness to take me
to Heaven. Shouldn't I have known better?
God has been using many things over the years to bring me to this point, but here are just a few of the specific things that God has used to draw me to Himself the past two months:
- Uncle Jerry's messages on sin and salvation. I thought that since the messages were aimed toward the unsaved or newly saved Africans, I wouldn't be able to learn anything from them. I needed to hear the teaching from the book of John, and really listen this time.
- Grading the correspondence courses on the books of John and Romans. It was getting harder and harder for me to ignore the clear plan of salvation, and the fact that I still needed it.
- Drew teasing me about not being saved. Although Drew didn't know it, God really used this even though I didn't like it at the time. Drew and I had a really great talk this morning as I shared with him about getting saved, and after I thanked him for teasing me, he shared his salvation testimony with me too, which was a great blessing.
- Aunt Debbie sharing her testimony with me several weeks after I arrived, little knowing how much the affect her words were having on me as I listened. This morning she told me that she had been praying for my salvation since I got here, which I was very surprised and thankful for to God.
-The recent salvation of Mrs. Connors. This was a very great instrument and encouragement for me to make my own decision to get saved.
-The book Hinds Feet on High Places, which I am still reading. I realized that I was like the main character, Much-Afraid, and needed to be delivered from my fears.
-Derek asking about what we had been getting out of our Bible reading lately...."Um, nothing. I can't even remember what I read much less something I learned and applied." He also mentioned a young man back at their home church who everyone is praying for to get saved. I thought, "Wow, he must not be very good at hiding it...like me."
So, last night, I was trying to read my Bible at the desk in my room, I just wanted to settle the matter, and told myself that if Juli's light was still on in her room, I would go talk to her. It was about eleven p.m. and the light was still on, so I went in and told her that I had been having trouble not really knowing if I was saved or not. She showed me many verses, and at eleven forty-five, I knew what I needed to do. I confessed my sin to God, and asked Jesus to be my personal Savior - I want to live for Him and Him alone now, not the way I think others around me expect me to live.
There are so many things that need to change in my life, but God is already working on me, and I am willing to be worked on:) I am so glad that I no longer have to do things in my own strength and be a "faker" to those around me, and hope that you will rejoice in my decision with me from that side of the ocean. As Dad once said, "Some people will miss Heaven by a mile, and some by a ruler." I am for sure, 100%, that I will go to Heaven someday, and not miss it by a mile or a ruler. Now we can share the same birthday, Dad!
I love you all so much, and am thankful for everything leading up to my salvation that God has been using to bring me to Himself.
~Lydia
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Kruger National Park & African Pics










Early last Friday morning, Juli, Dy, Bethany, Uncle Jerry and I hopped in the kombi and headed for Kruger National Park. We left the house a little after 5am, when the sun was just about to peak over the distant mountain ranges. It wasn’t light enough to read, so I drifted off to sleep during the two hours it took to get to the park.
Once inside the park, we met several ladies driving away from a watering hole. They said that there were a few elephants back there, but that they were very aggressive. So we headed towards the watering hole:) We saw about eighteen elephants playing beside and in the small pond, but when we climbed up in to a hide nearby, we realized that there were many more elephants (and they didn’t bother us at all).
Although Kruger is 20,000 square km (about the size of New Jersey), you aren’t allowed out of your vehicle except for certain places where you can get out at your own risk. It’s probably because of all the lions and leopards roaming about, not to mention the wildebeast, cape buffalo, and rhinos (which are said to be the most dangerous of the big five). We didn’t see any rhinos or leopards that day, but here’s a list of what we did see:
~22 vultures
~53 elephants
~MANY impala (I stopped counting after eight large herds)
~1 rock dossie (the Bible calls it a conie)
~9 giraffes
~ 25 cape buffalo
~ 6 hippos
~1 martial eagle
~11 water bucks
~Over 90 wildebeasts
~47 zebras
~20 Chacma baboons
~3 horn bills, one with a snake in it’s mouth!
~14 warthogs
~4 common reedbucks
~1 male lion
~ 8 kudu
~Lots of franklins
~1 bateleur( hawk-like)
~3 vervet monkeys
~1 red tail hawk
~4 maribou storks
~2 turtles
~5 glossy ivis
...as we`ll as many smaller birds and insects including the Lilac-Breasted Roller, African Hoopoe, Cape Glossy Starling, and the Giant Kingfisher.
The land was typically a marula/knob-thorn open tree savanna with delagoa thorn thickets, except for the riverine areas which had larger trees such as the Ebony Jackal-berry and the River Acacia.
My aunt let me borrow her binoculars for the day, and I had a fun time using them out the backseat window of the kombi and yelling “STOP!!!!!!!!” whenever I saw an animal. My favorites were the zebra and the impala, which are both common but still very beautiful animals. The impala’s horns can grow up to 50cm long (20in), and normally will be found in herds of about a hundred, which we definitly saw while we were there. Zebras graze with the impala or wildebeast so they can have more protection from predators. The zebra is also protected from enemies by grouping together so that the enemy is confused by their stripes and can’t pick out single zebras.
Well, that’s all on Kruger for now. Hope you enjoy the pics!Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Pool Side Baptism
Sunday, February 20, 2011
Sotho vs. Afrikaans:
language), and Afrikaans( the language of the white Dutch/English).
The Afrikaaners and Sothos do not get along in general, and have a
distinct disliking for each others' people. This attitude goes way
back in history, and makes working with either group difficult. The
whites look down on us for working out in the villages, and the blacks
don't trust us because we're the same color as the Afrikaaners. God
has given His life for each one of these South Africans, no matter the
color of their skin.
An African meal:
kind of food as we do back in the States, except everything is made by
scratch. The white South Africans of Dutch and English descent eat
about the same as us with a few exceptions. The native South Africans
eat a very unhealthy diet with few fruits and vegetables, which is
surprising because they are surrounded by roadside fruit stands and
good garden plots. They will typically have a piece of bread and tea
(usually Joko tea, which is REALLY good!) for breakfast, mealie pop
(corn meal) and a coke for lunch, and then eat a supper of mealie pop
with dip and a side dish right before bed.
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Happy Valentine's day!
A typical Sunday morning Service:
Friday's Fun and Fellowship
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Squatter Shacks
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I went into one of the shacks which smelled strongly of sweaty bodies that hadn't been washed in a long time, as well as several other not so nice things. Garbage was packed into the dirt floor, and carboard was put up against the tin so that it wouldn't burn them when they touched it( the sun here is so brutal).
The people seem so hopeless, just stuck in this way of living. Only God can offer true hope. Not handouts from the government, or money people send from overseas.
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Learning languages
Saturday, February 5, 2011
"Come and see..."
Monday, January 31, 2011
No internet
South Africa, some neighborhood thugs cut the wires to the phone and
internet here, so all we've been able to do is use my Uncle's cell
phone, which is a great blessing to have. The internet service at the
internet cafe in town has been down foe two week as well, so this will
explain my lack of posting to this blog:)
We have been busy with printing ministry and helping with passing out
Gospel booklets, but have had lots of fun playing soccer, volleyball,
and swimming too. Well, I have to go for now, but just wanted to let
everyone know that I haven't been kidnapped or killed by lions yet:)
Hope to post again soon! Please feel free to post comments or
questions you have.
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Two Random Facts
Flight In & First Impressions
Monday, January 17, 2011
One day left in America...
My next post will be from Africa!!!!
Sunday, January 16, 2011
More Pics!
Two days until I'm on my way!
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
Getting ready to go...

